GROW UP OR SHUT UP©

[lolo]

You know what I love? The fact that some people feel the need to be as immature as possible. If you want to make a friend, be a friend. Don't act like an ass and expect people to like you. Be open minded, be kind, be yourself. Show some compassion and respect.

Act your effin age... grow up, or shut up. Don't try to drag others down just because you're angry at the world and yourself. That's not what life is about. That's not what humanity is about. If you don't want to converse with other people, then don't.... No one is forcing you to be here. A message board is to meet and talk to different people. If you aren't here to mingle, get on your instant messenger or the phone.

I don't mean to be a b.tch, this is just ridiculous. I am so damn tired of all the crap that's going on... things that people think are unseen and unheard... is it too much to ask that this be put six feet in the ground already? The board never used to be like this... it's getting to the point, that people don't even want to be here because it's not a fun place anymore. This board started out with no rules... because none were needed. Everyone was respectful enough to hold their own.

Everyone knows who they are, what they said, did, or didn't do. Some are guilty, others not. I'm not pointing fingers, believe me, if I was, your name would've been called already. This isn't a thread to start an argument in. If you have a problem with it, take it the admin or myself.

I'm not looking to start anything with anyone, or piss anyone off. I just think something needed to be said in general to the group here.

[irol]

I'm glad this was brought up. That is one of the biggest reasons i don't come here that often anymore. i miss the way things used to be here.

[Skittles]

I completely agree with everything in this thread. I'm also not blaming anyone. I've been trying to be a responsible and mature admin, but not everyone seems to respect my authority (sorry, don't mean to sound like cartman, but it happened). The things that some of us talk about outside of the board is OUR business. If things keep going the way they have been, I'll have to take further action. I also miss the way it was before when nobody hated anyone and we all got along and had serious fun. I'll do my best to make it that way again.

[Renaissance]

Okay, I knew things felt weird but I had no idea. I totally agree though; if you have an issue with somebody or something you should at least try to act civilized and work towards a solution. Life is too short and time is too precious to be waging wars over trivial comments.

[Fall Out Girl]

I think a lot of assumptions and judgements have been made by both sides. And I don't believe it can just be forgotten, but should be resolved in private.

[irol]

I think it's awful that it even got to the point that it got to. we've NEVER had ANY kind of problems ever before on this board, and I've been here since the very beginning.

admin said:

The things that some of us talk about outside of the board is OUR business. If things keep going the way they have been, I'll have to take further action. I also miss the way it was before when nobody hated anyone and we all got along and had serious fun. I'll do my best to make it that way again.

I couldn't agree with you more skit. and you are doing a great job as an admin. the majority of us here have nothing but respect and love for you.

[lolo]

irol said:

and you are doing a great job as an admin. the majority of us here have nothing but respect and love for you.

You nailed that on the head Lorz.

[Renaissance]

I couldn't have said it better myself. Skit built this community, and if she willed it, it could be gone tomorrow.... She has the power and at the very least you have to respect that.